10 Most Hurtful Comments Parents Make To Their Kids
Negative Comparisons to Other Children:
"Look at how well-behaved/smart/talented their child is."
ismissal of Feelings:
"Stop being so sensitive" or "You're overreacting."
Dismissing Achievements:
"Anyone could have done that" or "It's not a big deal."
Blaming the Child for Parental Stress:
"You're the reason for all our problems."
Comparisons to Other Parents:
"Your friend's parents are so much better than we are."
Denial of Affection:
Withholding love as a form of punishment.
Unrealistic Expectations:
"You'll never amount to anything" or "You can't do anything right."
Parental Disinterest:
Ignoring a child's accomplishments or important events.
Using Guilt as a Manipulation Tactic:
"If you loved me, you would do this."
Public Humiliation:
Criticizing or berating a child in front of others.